Born in the fire
by a Local Juvenile Domestic Violence Survivor
I was raised in a house where love was a war,
Where silence was deadly and slamming doors roared.
The battles were daily, the scars still remain,
And I thought that love meant living with pain.
I learned that a promise could shatter like glass,
That "forever" was fragile and never would last.
No one ever showed me how love’s supposed to feel—
I thought hurting each other was part of the deal.
So, I’m sorry if I’ve hurt you, if I broke you apart,
If I didn’t know how to handle your heart.
I was taught that love was cruel and unkind,
And I’ve been fighting the ghosts they left in my mind.
I never saw tenderness, never knew peace,
Just screaming and fighting, a hope that would cease.
I’m trying to unlearn the damage I’ve known,
But love, when you’re broken, feels hard to call home.
So, to whoever I hurt, past or yet to come,
I’m sorry for not knowing what love could become.
I’m still teaching myself how to hold on, not fight,
To offer a love that feels gentle, feels right.
But sometimes the past has a grip on my chest,
And I hurt the ones that I wanted to bless.
I’m sorry if I ever made you feel small,
I’m still learning that love isn’t anger at all.
I’m sorry for the damage I carry inside,
For the ways that it pours out when I try to hide.
I’m trying to heal, but the road’s long and steep,
And sometimes I drown in the love that I seek.
So, if you’ve been hurt by my hands or my heart,
Know that I’m mending, but still torn apart.
I was born in the fire, but I’m learning to heal,
Learning that love is tangible and real.
Cleveland County Sheriff’s Office
Sex Offender Registry
NOTIFICATION OF SEX OFFENDER RELOCATION
REGISTRANTS NAME: Cody Temple
D.O.B- 02/11/1996 AGE- 28
LOCATION: 107 Haven Way Cherryville, NC 28021
DESCRIPTION: W/M, Blue eyes, Brown hair, 5’07
CONVICTED OF: Sex Exploit Minor 2nd Degree x10
TERM OF REGISTRATION: General Offender- At least 30 years unless Petition for Removal is granted after 10 years.
The Cleveland County Sheriff’s Office is required by law to maintain a registry of sex offenders residing, working, or attending school in Cleveland County. In an effort to keep our community informed we are posting on social media when a sex offender has a change of residency or is newly registered with this agency.
For our readers we understand that this is a sensitive topic. Please remember that ANY personal attacks of ANY kind, use and/or misuse of this information by individuals, groups or entities to commit criminal acts (to include, but not limited to, threats, intimidation, stalking, harassment) against other persons is subject to criminal prosecution. Profane language will also be deleted.
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We are happy to introduce the latest member of the Cleveland County Sheriff's Office. "Coca" is one of four in NC, specially trained in Electronic Storage Detection (ESD).
ESD K9's are used to locate and identify storage media devices containing criminal evidence, particularly in child exploitation investigations.
Congratulations to Detective and Digital Forensic Analyst, Chrissy Weaver, who has successfully completed the required training to utilize Coca in the search for electronic storage devices used in criminal activity. ... See MoreSee Less
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Congratulations!
Congratulations
Congratulations! Cleveland County is a great count to work for! 👏
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Born in the fire
by a Local Juvenile Domestic Violence Survivor
I was raised in a house where love was a war,
Where silence was deadly and slamming doors roared.
The battles were daily, the scars still remain,
And I thought that love meant living with pain.
I learned that a promise could shatter like glass,
That "forever" was fragile and never would last.
No one ever showed me how love’s supposed to feel—
I thought hurting each other was part of the deal.
So, I’m sorry if I’ve hurt you, if I broke you apart,
If I didn’t know how to handle your heart.
I was taught that love was cruel and unkind,
And I’ve been fighting the ghosts they left in my mind.
I never saw tenderness, never knew peace,
Just screaming and fighting, a hope that would cease.
I’m trying to unlearn the damage I’ve known,
But love, when you’re broken, feels hard to call home.
So, to whoever I hurt, past or yet to come,
I’m sorry for not knowing what love could become.
I’m still teaching myself how to hold on, not fight,
To offer a love that feels gentle, feels right.
But sometimes the past has a grip on my chest,
And I hurt the ones that I wanted to bless.
I’m sorry if I ever made you feel small,
I’m still learning that love isn’t anger at all.
I’m sorry for the damage I carry inside,
For the ways that it pours out when I try to hide.
I’m trying to heal, but the road’s long and steep,
And sometimes I drown in the love that I seek.
So, if you’ve been hurt by my hands or my heart,
Know that I’m mending, but still torn apart.
I was born in the fire, but I’m learning to heal,
Learning that love is tangible and real. ... See MoreSee Less
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So powerful and so true. Thank you for sharing.
HeartLeigh Murray I love your poem. Keep using writing to share your heart. You are gifted in this area. May many people be blessed by your story and find hope.
***CAPTURED***
John Wayne Doster, Jr. is wanted by the Cleveland County Sheriff’s Office for the following:
*Larceny of Motor Vehicle
*Possession of Motor Vehicle
*Break/Enter Motor Vehicle with Theft
*Felony Larceny
*Possession of Stolen Goods/Property
*Damage to Property
If seen, do not approach suspect, please call Cleveland County Communications at 704-484-4822. ... See MoreSee Less
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Anyone who steals anything that belongs to someone who has worked and acquired property needs to be punished fully. No slap on the hands. Extended jail time would cause this stupidity to decrease.
Some people just seem to never learn🤦♀️
It honestly really sad about this kid. He has such a good heart he’s just in with the wrong stuff. And this is coming from someone who has lived that life. 💔
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